GETTING YOUR SEXY BACK

They say beauty comes from the inside and so does ‘sexy’.

You may not feel particularly beautiful if you split up from a partner for example and you may not feel particularly sexy after a long week at work, but if you learn to be kind to yourself, then your ‘sexy’ will most definitely come back.

It’s not about being a size zero either, it’s about learning to give yourself love that will make you feel sexy and beautiful. As long as you feel good and accept yourself, others will see your sexy and your beauty too.

Just remember that sometimes our feelings about ourselves can nosedive every now and then, particularly in more challenging times, such as times of financial hardship or relationship breakdown or illness.

The road back to sexy is often a journey which can take some time.

A Boudoir Photoshoot is part of that recovery process.

A Boudoir Experience is a fabulously non-judgemental way to learn how to accept yourself and become comfortable in your own skin. That’s really the purpose of this experience, to gain some self acceptance.

To look in the mirror and be happy with what you see.

This feeling is hugely liberating.

We often feel so lost in ourselves that we can no longer see the positives, yet, after a few minutes in front of our camera, you’ll see yourself as if through someone else’s eyes and start to appreciate your own awesome, beautiful self.

Here are some simple suggestions to get back to loving yourself once again.

REFRESH YOUR OUTFITS

Spend a day refreshing your wardrobe.

Get rid of all your old frumpy looks and work on getting some new fun-looking clothes.

If you want to feel good about yourself then your wardrobe should reflect this.

We completely understand that you may want to hid behind baggy clothes all the time, but try something a little more shapely and consider how showing off your curves makes you feel.

(Remember, curves are ‘sexy’! Think Marilyn Monroe and Kim Kardashian )

Your wardrobe doesn’t have to be all black or dark colours either.

Try adding a little colour to freshen things up and try not to stress about the money too much.

Primark and Zara have loads of choice at great prices.

Cheap enough that you can experiment a little and not get too precious if you don’t like the look after 6 months.

BOOK A SEXY BOUDOIR PHOTOSHOOT

Doh! Obviously we’d recommend this but it really is a great way to get your sexy back.

We often say that for some people it can be a life changing experience.

It will feel liberating and it will certainly boost your confidence.

You’ll feel ready to take on the world after this.

Then, after the photoshoot, you’ll be able to pick some stylish, sexy pictures that you absolutely love of yourself and hang them on the walls or have them made into an amazing book which will make you feel fabulous everytime you see them.

We genuinely believe you will feel so good about your pictures that you’ll be proud to put them on your walls and consider them as art. So many clients tell us this.

Don’t take our word for it though…. have a look at what our clients have to say - WHAT OUR CLIENTS SAY

Think of a Boudoir Photoshoot as an investment in yourself that will reap positive benefits for many years to come.

It’s time to celebrate YOU, because YOU’RE WORTH IT!

SLIP INTO SOMETHING MORE COMFORTABLE SEXIER

Avoid wearing joggers and Hoodies around the house all the time.

Of course they’re comfy but, remember, the aim here is to help you get back to feeling sexy again and to help with that, try wearing something that makes you feel sexier.

Something silky that feels good against your skin like some PJs from Victoria’s Secret or these from Boux Avenue

Another simple tip is to try wearing matching underwear, even under your work clothes and even (or especially) if you’re single. Honestly, you don’t need to be with a partner to feel sexy, you should do it to make you feel good to tell yourself ‘You’re worth it’.

Also, consider wearing something lacy or silky or maybe even, something a ‘little bit naughty’…No one else needs to know, just you and it will make you smile every time you think about it.

TAKE SOME TIME FOR PAMPERING

Shopping trips are always fun, but so is a day at the spa.

This is your “me day”, away from all the craziness and stress of the outside world.

A day of therapy is definitely good for your soul.

An alternative to the spa is to get a professional mani and pedi or a new hair do or waxing.

All these things will help make you feel good about yourself.

YOUR TIME IS NOW! YOU ARE WORTH IT, RIGHT NOW!

Your increased love of yourself and your environment after doing these few simple things will help grow your confidence and this will show itself as increased sensuality and sexiness.

Sexiness is not about looks, it’s about how you feel.

It’s about how you walk and how you radiate confidence everywhere you go. It’s not something that comes naturally to everybody and sometimes you need to do a little work to get to that point but a beautiful boudoir experience, together with these self care tips will get you most of the way there.

After 20 years of photographing women we can say that the most confident women are certainly the sexiest.

With a new wardrobe, decent diet and exercise and a daily destress, you can regain control of your life and Get your sexy back.

CHOOSING OUTFITS FOR YOUR SHOOT

Put some thought into the outfits you choose for your Boudoir shoot and you’ll reap the benefits. Think of these outfits as the catalyst that will help you get into the ‘sexy’ zone.

What you wear can transform your whole photo shoot experience.

Those clients with great wardrobe looks that you see from our past sessions on this website didn’t just find those outfits in their wardrobes the morning of the shoot. Many of our clients take weeks preparing what they’re going to wear and we even have a Prep guide with a whole range of outfit suggestions to help you plan. We encourage you to bring as many outfits as you like to your session. After all, it’s better to have too many outfits than too few.

Oh, and don’t worry if you think you’ve got nothing to wear. We’ll still make you look super sexy because, well. that’s our job… It’s what we do.

Outfits can help but the real ‘sexy’ comes from within YOU..

Every woman has some insecurities

When you look through our portfolio pages HERE keep in mind that almost every single woman you see on our website came to their session with some insecurities about the way they looked. Self-doubts about something they don’t like when they look in the mirror but at the end of their session, they left feeling alive and finally able to see the beautiful person they actually are.

Faye told us “I just wanted to say a massive thank you for the fabulous job you did making me feel like a true beautiful person that I am. My confidence now, after this experience, is so much more amazing. No more do I walk down the street with my head down low. It’s now held high and I own that pavement! Thank you again. You are fantastic!” (see her pictures HERE )

Expressing Your Sensuality

When most people think of boudoir they just think ‘sexy photos’.

Often that idea of ‘sexy’ is associated with being perceived as sexually desirable rather than expressing a deep goddess-like sensuality from within.

For us, sensuality is something that you can express when you’re fully tuned into yourself, listening to your desires, and owning your ‘inner power’. This may sound a little ‘cult-like’ to some but essentially this means, you are more sensual when you feel sensual.

To do this takes a little work on loving yourself.

When we create your images from this place, it’s inevitable that they are going to be sexy.

This is because they are a reflection of you in your most empowered state.

During your Boudoir journey with us, we will be encouraging you to tune into your sensuality every step of the way.

We do this with bold wardrobe choices, great hair and makeup, a luxurious location and by creating a judgement free, safe environment for you to express yourself without inhibition in front of the camera.

So, are you ready to take a leap of faith and get your Sexy back?