Change The Way You See Yourself With A Boudoir Style Photoshoot
THE ART OF BOUDOIR CAN CHANGE THE WAY YOU SEE YOURSELF
Every woman needs to do this to remind her just how amazing she really is. This really can change the way you see yourself.
We all have things about ourselves that we don’t like and as we get older that ‘hate list’ seems to get longer.
Some of us learn to live with our flaws and become comfortable in our own skin. Others have to work harder to get to that comfortable place. The place Gok Wan tries to get you to in ‘How to look good naked’.
A Boudoir Photoshoot Experience is a little bit like being on that famous TV show but way less scary because it’s way less public. The effect of a good photoshoot though, will often have a positive experience for many years to come.
TRY AND THINK ABOUT THE THINGS YOU LOVE ABOUT YOURSELF
If you try and think of the things you love about yourself, you may struggle to think of anything.
Ask your friends, however, and they will be able to reel of a list of things that are amazing about you.
What we try and do during your Madison Bou boudoir experience is to allow you to see yourself through a ‘friends’ eyes.
No judgement.
Just the beauty of YOU.
The hardest part of all this is actually booking the shoot and turning up.
That’s too hard for so many people…
The same people who want to diet but don’t, the same people who want to get on top of their finances but don’t, the same people who want to go out and have rewarding life but stay in and watch television…. These are the same people who want to feel empowered and more confident but don’t do anything to become that way.
It’s difficult.
It’s easier to stay at home, watching television, stroking the cat.
It’s safer at home.
For those that do take the leap though, the rewards can literally change the way you see yourself in the most positive and rewarding way.
You don’t need to know how to stand, sit or pose either. That’s our job.
You will be guided through your shoot every step of the way.
You will end up seeing the most amazing woman everyone else sees but you may have lost sight of.
… and how much more precious will all these pictures be when you look back on them in 10 or 20 years from now and think “WOW, IS THAT REALLY ME?”
Even more powerful when one of those amazing pictures is printed a little bigger than you ever expected a picture of you should be and hung on the wall to see every single day.
THINK OF OF THINGS THAT COULD MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD AND REALLY BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE RIGHT NOW AND HAVE A LASTING EFFECT
Make a list…
• A Spa Weekend
• Change Jobs
• Run a marathon
• Learn to ice skate
• Take lessons in burlesque or pole dancing
• A Boudoir Photoshoot
We have so much fear when it comes to getting out of our comfort zone, it’s why the expression exists in the first place.
One of the biggest fears is not the act itself but the reaction to the act.
You believe…
People will think you’re an egotist to want a large picture of yourself on the wall.
What right do you have?
Who do you think you are (some kind of ‘celebrity’?) to want something of you on the wall?
Sure, you’d put pictures of the kids up but not pictures of you. You’re not worth it are you?
Well, guess what?
YOU ARE WORTH IT and if you don’t do this, what are you telling the kids? … That Mummy has no value in herself and therefore you’re sending the same message to the kids.
A big, powerful picture of yourself on the wall is sending out a strong and positive message to your kids which will, in turn, give them confidence in themselves.
Of course, a ‘sexy’ picture on the wall may not be appropriate but with every ‘boudoir’ photoshoot we do we always make enough images that would be suitable for even the most conservative of households.
We often find it so hard to accept compliments.
The idea of someone saying ‘WOW’ is that really you? to a picture of you really can take some getting used to.
But when it happens (As it will) it will be the most amazing feeling.
You’ll even start to believe it yourself and that feeling is priceless.
As Faye told us ” I just wanted to say a massive thank you for the fabulous job you did making me feel like a true beautiful person that I am. My confidence now, after this experience, is so much more amazing. No more do I walk down the street with my head down low. It’s now held high and I own that pavement! “
(See her comment HERE )
Sometimes our clients arrive shaking with nerves and lack of self belief.
After seeing their finished pictures though, they all leave with their ‘head held high’ and feeling like they ‘own that pavement’
Honestly you have nothing to lose when you do a photoshoot like this but imagine how much you could gain if your sense of self worth is improved in a life changing way.
You really can change the way you see yourself in the most positive way.