“I was really nervous before my shoot but you both made me feel so at ease. You joked about how many emails you sent out but believe me, I read them all!! Most people said they felt exactly how I did so that was reassuring to know. The tips on which underwear to choose was also really great, helping me to select which would work the best for me as I hadn’t worn anything like this for years!

I felt really comfortable in your company, Jayne asked how I felt in the makeup as it was more than I would usually wear and was on hand to make my hair look fabulous too. Advising which outfits would work the best and helping me into them. Touching up makeup and hair all the way through.

With plenty of words of encouragement my confidence soon began to grow and the whole experience was thoroughly enjoyable and fun!!”

— Jayne (Pictured below)

Boudoir photography is an empowering and beautiful art form that celebrates the female form in all its grace and elegance.

It's about capturing your beauty through non judgemental eyes and showing you just how gorgeous you are, right now. It’s a wonderful way to reveal your confidence, and embrace your own,unique beauty.

However, there's a common misconception that you need to be extremely confident to have a boudoir session. This is simply not the case.

In reality, most people who come to us tell us they lack confidence and it takes a huge amount of courage to book this photoshoot in the first place.

Confidence is something that grows throughout the Boudoir experience.

The Myth of Confidence

One thing we hear a lot is "I don't have the confidence to do a boudoir session". But, honestly, you don't need confidence! A confidence boost is what you'll get from this session!

So let's debunk this myth right from the start: Confidence is not a fixed attribute that you either have or don’t have. It's more like a muscle that can be exercised and strengthened. One thing we hear a lot is "I don't have the confidence to do a boudoir session". But let me tell you straight up, you don't need confidence girl! A confidence boost is what you'll get from the session!

Many women believe they need to possess unwavering self-assurance to book a boudoir session, but this isn’t the case.

A boudoir photoshoot can actually be the catalyst for boosting your self-confidence.

The Boudoir Experience as a Confidence Builder

A boudoir session is a unique experience that often takes women out of their comfort zones in the most delightful way possible.

It's a chance to challenge self-perceived limitations and redefine how you see yourself.

Here are a few ways that a boudoir shoot can help boost confidence …

1. Professional Guidance and Support

From the moment you decide to book a boudoir session, you will be guided by professionals who understand the anxieties and concerns you might have. We have been practicing the Art of Boudoir for more than 20 years and have learned how to help you feel comfortable and beautiful. We will create a supportive and safe environment, encouraging you to embrace your authentic self. So much of this experience is about making you feel comfortable throughout this experience. This is the key to you growing in confidence.

2. Step Out of Your Comfort Zone

A boudoir session is an opportunity to step out of your everyday life and express your individuality. This being said, it still isn't easy to step outside of your comfort zone, so how do others do it? The answer to that is courage. Finding even the tiniest bit of courage to do something so daring but so rewarding is all you need to do. Just like anything new you have ever done. A new job, hobby or sport, there is always some level of nervousness and anxiety that you'll need courage to overcome and once you do, you'll find confidence will set in. (We sometimes compare a Boudoir experience to Parachute jumping. Super scary but once you do it, the ‘rush’ you feel makes it totally worthwhile. The long lasting benefits in confidence can stay with you for years)

This is a chance to embrace vulnerability and turn it into strength. You’ll realise that real beauty lies in authenticity and embracing who you are. Accepting your true self is an amazing confidence builder.

Remember - 'Confidence comes from believing you can do it - Courage is giving it a go despite fear'

3. Celebrating Your Uniqueness

Boudoir photography is all about celebrating your uniqueness. There is no mold to fit into; YOU define your own beauty.

The photos captured during a boudoir shoot portray you in the best possible light, showcasing your personality, spirit, and individual beauty. We do everything we can to create something unique to you - No ‘cookie cutter’ poses or set pieces. Every shoot is as unique and individual as you are.

4. A Journey Towards Self-Love

So many people are uncomfortable at the idea of ‘self love’ - Especially Mums who have perhaps become used to putting themselves second (or even third) in the household for so long. After all the kids come first, right? Every once of energy and love and money goes into the family it seems there’s nothing left for you.

However, we have a mantra that states

“Loving yourself isn’t Vanity - It’s Sanity” and we firmly believe this.

The more you pay attention to yourself and learn to love and look after yourself, the more you’ll be able to give to others. Plus, of course, those you love will see your positivity rub off on them. ‘Self love’ soon spreads to the rest of the family.

A boudoir session can mark the beginning of a journey toward self-love and self-acceptance. It allows you to see yourself in a new light, appreciate your body, and cherish your unique features. Through this process, many women find a deeper connection with themselves.

Before you start telling yourself "those other women are naturals" or “they've done it before", I just want to say that all of our clients are real life women, just like you, not professional models. They are women who are not confident in front of a camera. They carry their own insecurities no matter what age or size they are and want to feel confident within themselves. Oh, and guess what? In more 20 years of doing this we have never had a woman who didn't look stunning and who couldn't do the poses.

You won't be an exception to this.

Trust in yourself that you will smash your session and look absolutely fabulous!

You don’t need to be a supermodel or possess boundless confidence to book a boudoir photoshoot experience. In fact, a boudoir session is a step toward embracing and enhancing your confidence. It's about celebrating the beautiful, imperfect, and unique person that you are. (We call it ‘perfectly imperfect’)

So, if you’ve ever contemplated a boudoir session but felt held back by lack of confidence, remember, the experience itself can help you discover the confident and radiant woman within you.

Embrace the opportunity and watch your self-assurance soar.

WHAT JAYNE (PICTURED) TOLD US ….

What was your reason for wanting to do the shoot?

I have no self confidence and always avoid being photographed. I never had a wedding album put together as I didn’t like myself on any of the pictures. I have lost 3 & a half stone and felt it was the right time to push myself out my comfort zone and see if I could have some pictures that I could look back on and be proud of.

Would you recommend us to your friends?

Yes

Please write a paragraph or two on your thoughts about your experience.

I was really nervous before my shoot but you both made me feel so at ease. You joked about how many emails you sent out but believe me, I read them all!! Most people said they felt exactly how I did so that was reassuring to know. The tips on which underwear to choose was also really great, helping me to select which would work the best for me as I hadn’t worn anything like this for years!

I felt really comfortable in your company, Jayne asked how I felt in the makeup as it was more than I would usually wear and was on hand to make my hair look fabulous too. Advising which outfits would work the best and helping me into them. Touching up makeup and hair all the way through.

With plenty of words of encouragement my confidence soon began to grow and the whole experience was thoroughly enjoyable and fun!!

What was going through your mind when you viewed your pictures for the first time?

I really didn’t expect to like my pictures as I never had in the past (wedding pics etc) so felt very apprehensive about viewing them.

When I walked in and my picture was up there on display like a magazine, I didn’t recognise myself!! I looked a million dollars!! Wow! I felt really emotional and thrilled to bits with them all.

Do you have any advice for other women who are thinking of this Experience?

Don’t give it another thought….get it booked, you’ll have the most fabulous day and photographs to be proud of.

Would you consider another shoot in future (Perhaps changing the style to family/boudoir/kids/headshots)

Yes

What could we do to improve the Madison Bou Experience?

Nothing it was great from start to finish!

A Madison Bou Experience is one of the most fun days you’ll ever have.

You get to play dress up and be a lingerie model for the day.

You can bring your best friend and make it a "girl's day out"if you wish.

You'll be pampered as you get your hair and makeup done. Your favourite music will be playing.

You'll really feel like a star.

That's the fun part - BUT, the real benefit is yet to come...

The best part actually come AFTER your session.

From when you see your images for the first time, to receiving the finished album, and finally getting to relive the whole experience every time you look at your images.

You'll see the beauty in you that you often forget is there.