“I used to be married but I’m better now”

“Don’t cry because it’s over. - Smile because his new girlfriend looks like a horse.”

“Better to have loved and lost than live with a psycho for the rest of your life”

“The only thing worse than going through divorce was my marriage.”

No one starts out their marriage with expectations of getting divorced but the unfortunate fact is that according to recent divorce statistics, 42% of marriages in the UK end in divorce.

The latest statistics show that 108,421 couples divorced in 2019!

When a woman has got to the point of signing the divorce papers, she has had plenty of time to come to terms with the decision after much heartache and deliberation. The pain of divorce may well linger for many years but for many women, much of the worst is over. For those in a positive mindset, they can even start looking toward a brighter future. The rebuilding process starts here.

Many women come to us to help find the person they once were, before divorce took over their lives. They come to us to ragain their lost confidence and maybe even ‘celebrate’ their new found freedom.

Freedom to do what they want without answering to anyone else.

Sure, initially the short term future may seem a little lonely for many women, but it doesn’t have to be that way.

It is important though to rebuild that sense of self worth, that sense of inner strength and this process can take time.

The saying “Every door that closes another one opens” is so true with divorce. For those of a positive mindset, this could be an opportunity to celebrate.

Celebrate being single, celebrate being free, celebrate the start of a new, exciting chapter.