Take it from us, there is nobody more attractive than a smart, confident and courageous woman in her 40’s….it’s a great time in a woman’s life for so many reasons! You really can feel fab at 40 .

For one thing, you spend your 20s and 30s figuring yourself out, so by the time you get to your 40s, you know yourself really well. Hopefully at this point, you’ve learned to accept, and even love, the things you cannot change.

You’re still improving, of course, but you know who you are.

The 40s are fabulous because now you can wear what you want, you can watch and listen to what you want because the social pressures of the young adult world have no effect on you whatsoever… You’re so over that noise. You’re fab at 40! 

“I was a little nervous about the day, and what to expect. But upon my arrival I was instantly put at ease. I received help and advise on the clothes to wear and what make-up may look most flattering. The whole day flew by and I loved every minute. I felt great and my confidence grew and grew throughout. Thank you for such a memorable day!” … Michelle

“Thanks again for tonight. It was amazing for me to see myself through someone else’s perspective like that. A real eye opener. Can’t wait for Luke to see them, very excited as you made me look and feel a million dollars so I can’t thank you enough! xx” … Claire

One of the keys to success in boudoir is bringing a proper wardrobe with you that is not only beautiful, but fits and flatters your body as well.

Please use this guide to help you shop and know what to bring to your session. We hope you find it helpful. Please feel free to ask us questions at any time to assist you through the process as well.

Remember though, ultimately there's only one rule - No rules!

If you feel comfortable then wear it. 

That said, we have learned a few things over the years and know that some things work better than others.

Here's our Madison Bou guide to lingerie for that perfect boudoir ensemble.

In a bygone age, stockings were worn by almost every woman. They were regarded as expensive, feminine, sexy and ladylike. No outfit was complete without the right pair of hosiery no matter the occasion or weather. This has changed of course and many women who come to us say they’ve never worn a pair of stockings in their life. We work hard to ensure you look super comfortable during your photoshoot with us and if you hate the thought of wearing stockings then don’t wear them. That said, it’s a perfect excuse to play dress up and try the role of seductive ‘vixen’ and maybe you’ll see that a good pair of stockings will add the ‘Va Va Voom’ effect But you need to be careful which ones you buy for maximum effect.

Have you ever come close to booking a Boudoir Photoshoot but chickened out at the last minute?

It can be a daunting prospect. Even finding a classy photographic studio which provides images you love is difficult. Every website is so different, every studio seems so uninviting somehow.

What about styles…Do you want beautiful and feminine or raw and edgy or a bit of both?

Self doubt can often creep in as well. Im too old, too out of shape, I hate my hair and so on.

The art of a good boudoir photographer isn’t really about the pictures. It’s about the ability to make you feel amazing. Feel utterly beautiful.

It’s about helping you to forget the hum drum of daily life and inspire your inner goddess.

You’ll be taught to pose like a model and look like a million dollars. Your hair and make-up will make you feel super sexy.

This what’s it’s all about – Bringing your ‘sexy’ back.

Ab example of burlesque photography styles with performer honey Ryder. She has returned for more pictures to regain some confidence after a long period of lockdown. Her first shoot was a bridal boudoir gift for her husband but this one is more about what she does on stage.

Boudoir at 50? Why not? There is no age limit to feeling gorgeous and we can prove it. At Madison Bou, Boudoir truly has no age limits - Frank Kaiser is a journalist who writes and syndicates a column entitled, Suddenly Senior, and one of his most often quoted pieces sums up the aging process pretty well. It serves as a wonderful tribute to our clients, many of whom are in their 40s and 50s…. Please excuse the Americanisms…

A Boudoir photoshoot experience may be just the thing you need

You’ll feel fantastic. That’s a given.

From the moment you drive through the wooded entrance to our base at Hazlewood Castle, then the hour of hair and make-up, the two hours of feeling like a supermodel, being photographed in luxurious surroundings – All day, you’ll feel fantastic!

It doesn’t matter what your body size is or how you feel about your body image, we have the experience to bring out your inner super model and create images that will amaze you.

A Madison Bou Photoshoot experience will empower you. Particularly if you need a break from a stressful work life or difficult relationship, a day with us will have you feeling like you can conquer the world.