You Are Perfect Just The Way You Are
YOU ARE PERFECT NOW
OUR MISSION STATEMENT IS THIS…
YOU ARE PERFECT, JUST AS YOU ARE.
Not in a year.
Not when you lose ten pounds.
Not if you were 5 years younger.
Not on a “skinny” day.
NOW, JUST AS YOU ARE. YOU ARE PERFECT AND THAT IS BEAUTIFUL.
CELEBRATE who you are now or life will pass you by.
John Lennon said, “Life is what happens to you while you‘re busy making other plans..”
Stop taking the picture and get IN the picture. Next decade when our bodies are 10 years older and life is showing it’s marks, you can at least say you ‘showed up’. You were there for yourself, for your family and for your friends. You will be able to look back and be thankful for the now!
A QUICK MENTION ABOUT THE TERM ‘CURVY’ GIRL. (OTHERWISE KNOWN AS …. PLUS SIZE BOUDOIR )
When it came time to decide whether we should even have a section of this website dedicated to “plus size boudoir” we found ourselves gritting our teeth with frustration. Labels. Ugh, at their best, they help us feel connected and empowered to a community. At their worst, they can make us feel reduced, marginalised, and insecure.
Mostly, they help us quickly find content when you need it.
Like the Anniversary cards section in a supermarket when you forget that important date. (Of course, I know that you’ve never done that )
Many of our clients find us by searching phrases in Google like “Yorkshire boudoir photographers.” However, If you found us because you searched “plus size boudoir” or “curvy boudoir”, you’re in the right place.
We might not be a fan of this particular label – but we very much want to ensure we’re being found by ALL women.
If we’re not showing up because we avoid this label, then we’re missing out on the chance to offer our services in an inclusive way. So, that said, let’s get back to celebrating curves…
IS A CURVY GIRL PHOTOGRAPHY SESSION DIFFERENT THAN OTHER BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY SESSIONS?
In a word, No.
Why would it be?
You get the same amazing hair and make-up and superb styling as all the stick thin model types except we hope that by the end of your session, you’ll love your body far more than the stick thin model types.
Of course we have years of experience posing and lighting women of all shapes, skin tones and age groups and every one is unique and needs to be uniquely lit and posed but, rest assured, we have the experience to bring out the very best in you.
Simple things, like moving your shoulders, turning slightly, pushing your chin out,stepping into the light, all these things can make a world of difference. Your hips, your tummy, your upper arms, thighs and chin will all look awesome. Of course we’ll address the things you don’t like – maybe you think your nose is too flat or your mummy tummy is lacking tone or the bingo wings or surgical scars or… we all have our little insecurities and that’s why we talk through everything before the shoot begins. clever posing and smart wardrobe options, together with careful lighting and a little photoshop are all you need and this is what we provide.
Honestly, hand on heart, in our 20 years experience, those most critical of their bodies are the ‘model types’ and those who are most happy with what they have are the girls with curves.
Yet here is something strange… The number one reason why women don’t book this experience is because they want to ‘lose a few pounds first’.
Because we’re never ready.
We convince ourselves that losing a few pounds first will make our photos look better. Actually, an experienced photographer will make you look amazing however many pounds you weigh. An experienced photographer will make you look uber sexy, super glam, truly beautiful. This is what we do.
A photoshoot such as this will also empower you and boost your confidence and will do it now. Not in a few months when you’ve reached your ‘target weight’ whatever that may be.
You’ll become more confident in your own skin right now. You’ll feel liberated and you’ll change the way you see yourself.
Forget the numbers, let’s make you feel amazing NOW.
All you need to do is be brave enough to turn up.
WHEN SHOULD YOU BOOK YOUR MADISON BOU CURVY GIRL EXPERIENCE?
Once you’ve made the decision to do this, that’s when you should book your date.
As we’ve mentioned before, waiting to lose a few pounds first is both damaging to the psyche and missing the whole point of doing this.
Doing this will empower you. It will boost your confidence and it will show you just how perfect you are right now.
Imagine standing in the plane ready to skydive for the very first time.
It’s natural to be scared.
Imagine the feeling though when you can say “I did it! “
How good would that feeling be?
A photoshoot experience has no potential risks like skydiving but the benefits will be just as powerful and perhaps even more long lasting.
WHAT SHOULD YOU DO TO PREPARE?
Here are a few things to consider. Nothing is set in stone, but do remember, like many things in life… The more effort you put into something the more you’ll get out of it.
If you colour your hair, get your roots done.
If you get your nails done, choose a colour that will work with all your wardrobe options. Neutral shades normally work best.
Waxing/shaving. Whatever your routine, just make sure you’re happy with the state of things in time for your shoot.
Eyebrows. We’ll do some killer makeup for you, but we don’t have time to tweeze.
Lip Balm. Apply liberally for several days before your shoot to avoid chapped lips.
Hydrate! Drink plenty of water in the days leading up to your photo shoot. It makes a world of difference to the appearance of your skin and eyes, and it’s good for you anyway.
WHAT SHOULD I WEAR FOR MY SESSION?
Be sure to leave yourself time to prepare the outfits you’d like to use. We always recommend you bring more than you think you’ll need. If you’re not sure on your final choices, we can have a sort through options when you arrive and decide together.
We’ll discuss wardrobe thoroughly before the shoot, but in general it’s nice to have plenty of variety.
Bodysuits and shapewear are always popular options. If you’re planning a surprise or a gift for your significant other, you may also want to bring along something from his or her wardrobe (white dress shirts are great), or any other items that are personal to the two of you.
The most important thing is that your lingerie fits you well. If it’s been a while, treat yourself to a girly shopping trip, a bra fitting for example and pick up something you love.
If you need a little lingerie inspiration, we’ve created a lingerie App which you can keep on your phone. Get the Lingerie Guide HERE
We also have a Pinterest board with some ideas. Check out the ‘Curvy’ board HERE
CELEBRATE YOUR CURVES!
FORGET THE LABELS OF PLUS SIZE BOUDOIR OR CURVY BOUDOIR JUST REMEMBER –
YOU do not need to lose a few pounds first.
YOU need to feel more comfortable in your own skin.
A Boudoir photoshoot like ours is one of the most empowering ways to regain confidence in the way you look. (Gok Wan would be proud)
What our experience has given us is the ability to bring out the most beautiful you that YOU have ever seen.
‘Curvy’ will make you a sex symbol. (Well that and a heavy dose of fame and fortune)
This is what boudoir is all about.
We say …
CELEBRATE YOUR CURVES!
LOVE THE SKIN YOU’RE IN!
ENJOY BEING SEXY!
…No more excuses. Grab a dose of Madison Bou Confidence and Rock that insanely gorgeous body and create some curvy boudoir photos to empower you for years to come.
We are all, uniquely, imperfectly perfect.